Although marriage initially evokes words like love, affection, and commitment, there is another word closely related to marriage: Responsibility
With marriage comes an increase in responsibility. Therefore, it is not accurate to talk about an ideal age for marriage. Instead of an ideal marriage age, it is more accurate to talk about the willingness to take on responsibilities and finding a compatible partner. The right time for marriage is when the individual feels ready for this responsibility. Thus, the ideal age for marriage is personal.
The age at which a person feels ready for marriage varies for both women and men, depending on their expectations from marriage. When determining the time for marriage, the following priorities of the person are important; Cultural conditions, Social conditions, Economic conditions, Emotional conditions, Career status, Psychological maturity. Therefore, the time for marriage can sometimes be in the 20s, sometimes in the 30s, and sometimes in the 40s for both women and men..
For a happy marriage, the compatibility of the partners and their sense of responsibility are much more important than age. Therefore, one should not marry just because time is passing. Finding a partner with whom you can dream of a shared future, who has the responsibility to build a family, who gives you confidence, and who will be there for you in good times and bad, is essential for happiness.
Deciding on marriage is not done by setting a specific age. Marriage is a journey. Individuals can determine the time for marriage by asking themselves with whom they want to embark on this journey and whether they can overcome the obstacles encountered on the road with the person they want to start the journey with..
This content was prepared by Yeditepe University Hospitals Medical Editorial Board.
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Alo Yeditepe